This is The Powerful Way to Prevent Divorce
Divorce can happen to anyone and occur at any time. Communication is one powerful way to avoid it. Well how to establish communication with your partner?
These days divorce has become a new phenomenon in society. The number of divorce cases continues to increase. Results of research Mark Cammack, a professor from Southwestern School of Law-Los Angeles, USA, said that in the 1950s divorce rates in Southeast Asia, including Indonesia, considered the highest in the world. Divorce rates in Indonesia increased significantly again from 2001 to 2009.
The problem of divorce into something scary in fostering households. That is why, having harmonious relationships within each family to be the desire of each partner in a menage.
It is said by marriage and family counselor from the University of Indonesia, Adriana Soekandar Ginandjar, that divorce is caused by many reasons. However, the main problem is communication.
Communication is stuck or not going well become an obstacle in efforts to reconcile the husband and wife. When communication has been very severe, it is sometimes hard to find a solution. Many facts mentioned that the communication is not healthy and it is unclear frequent cause of family problems that lead to divorce.
Adriana said, married couples should be able to quickly identify problematic patterns of communication.
Then clarify what it wants to find a way out.
Strengthen communication can be done with an easy and simple. Eating together for example, in line with the changing lifestyle of each family member who is affected by the globalization process, the tradition of eating together often can not be done again.
“Do communications in a simple way and obtained from a daily occurrence in the environment,” said psychologist who also served as the head of this Mandiga School.
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These days divorce has become a new phenomenon in society. The number of divorce cases continues to increase. Results of research Mark Cammack, a professor from Southwestern School of Law-Los Angeles, USA, said that in the 1950s divorce rates in Southeast Asia, including Indonesia, considered the highest in the world. Divorce rates in Indonesia increased significantly again from 2001 to 2009.
The problem of divorce into something scary in fostering households. That is why, having harmonious relationships within each family to be the desire of each partner in a menage.
It is said by marriage and family counselor from the University of Indonesia, Adriana Soekandar Ginandjar, that divorce is caused by many reasons. However, the main problem is communication.
Communication is stuck or not going well become an obstacle in efforts to reconcile the husband and wife. When communication has been very severe, it is sometimes hard to find a solution. Many facts mentioned that the communication is not healthy and it is unclear frequent cause of family problems that lead to divorce.
Adriana said, married couples should be able to quickly identify problematic patterns of communication.
Then clarify what it wants to find a way out.
Strengthen communication can be done with an easy and simple. Eating together for example, in line with the changing lifestyle of each family member who is affected by the globalization process, the tradition of eating together often can not be done again.
“Do communications in a simple way and obtained from a daily occurrence in the environment,” said psychologist who also served as the head of this Mandiga School.
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